I Need Your Love - Is That True?: How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead

I Need Your Love - Is That True?: How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead

Byron Katie


In Loving What Is, bestselling writer Byron Katie brought hundreds of thousands of individuals to her uncomplicated and profound approach to discovering happiness via wondering the brain. Now, I want Your LoveIs That True? examines a common, age-old resource of hysteria: our relations with others. during this groundbreaking ebook, Katie is helping you query every little thing you've been taught to do to achieve love and approval. In doing this, you find how to define real love and connection.

The traditional recommendation provided in self-help books and bolstered by means of our tradition advocates a tense, all-consuming quest for romance and approval. we're urged to profit self-marketing and manipulative skills—how to draw, galvanize, seduce, and infrequently faux to be whatever we aren’t. This process doesn’t paintings. It leaves thousands of jogging wounded—those who, having did not locate love or appreciation, blame themselves and finish that they're unworthy of affection.

I want Your LoveIs That True? is helping you remove darkness from each zone on your existence the place you appear to lack what you lengthy for most—the love of your wife, the dignity of your baby, a lover’s tenderness, or the esteem of your boss. via its penetrating inquiry, you are going to fast detect the falseness of the authorized methods of looking love and approval, and in addition of the mythology that equates love with want. utilizing the tactic during this e-book, you are going to inquire into painful ideals that you’ve dependent all your existence on—and be overjoyed to determine them evaporate. Katie indicates you ways unraveling the knots within the look for love, approval, and appreciation brings true love and places you in control of your personal happiness.

“Everyone has the same opinion that love is marvelous, other than whilst it’s bad. humans spend their entire lives tantalized through love—seeking it, attempting to carry directly to it, or attempting to recover from it. now not a long way in the back of love, as significant preoccupations, come approval and appreciation. From early life on, most folks spend a lot in their strength in a constant pursuit of this stuff, testing varied tips on how to be spotted, to thrill, to provoke, and to win different people’s love, considering that’s simply the way in which existence is. This attempt can turn into so consistent and unquestioned that we slightly realize it anymore.

This booklet takes a detailed examine what works and what doesn’t within the quest for romance and approval. it is going to assist you have the option to be happier in love and more desirable in your whole relationships. What you study right here will carry achievement to every kind of relationships, together with romantic love, courting, marriage, paintings, and friendship.” —Byron Katie

From the Hardcover edition.

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